S/he knows when you are happy and when you are sad….your Bestie is the one who knows you in and out. You can do some of the craziest things together and can later laugh at it. They are a big time stress buster. They share your sorrows, happiness, make fun of you, and make fun of you. You cannot think of living without them because then who would give you advice, scold you, and accept your stupid ideas. Here are some of the things that you should do with your bestie…..
1) Go for a vacation – Domestic
Traveling and staying together nurtures the bond. If you do not have much time then you can select a weekend gateway and relax. Another option is going for the trek.
2) Go for a vacation……ABROAD
Europe, US, UK, Singapore, Malaysia, Bangkok, Dubai or any other place. Select a place and take off for at least 10 days. Trust me you will love it. Staying together, you get to know a hell lot of things about each other. And if you are friends from quite a long time, then you already know a lot of habits. At times it’s funny and amazing that you exactly know who his Mr/Ms. Dependable and the other one can just be carefree. Of course, you interchange roles. Creating memories together will strengthen your bond.
Those of you who are thinking this is just for girls, you are HIGHLY mistaken. Boys too enjoy gossiping. Yes at times it is bad, but it is all the more fun when you do it with your bestie.
4) Borrow clothes
Jo tera hai wo mera hai…jo mera hai wo tera hai – What is yours is mine… What is mine is yours…
5) House party
Yes..house party is an awesome idea. Don’t worry if it’s just you two. You can cry together, laugh, crib about life and do some crazy shit together. You will always remember these nights.
6) Be brutally honest
You gotta be brutally honest and this gonna save your bestie from a lot of trouble.
7) Share your food and drink
Sipping from the same glass or having their piece of food is just so awesome.
8) Take relationship advice
Be it about your husband/wife, boyfriend/girlfriend, family or office, a best friend would never misguide you. They will be in those 0.1% who are actually bothered about you and your life and can’t see you in pain.
Even if you have ONE good friend or bestie as we call it, your life is sorted. I am not saying you won’t face problems, but it will be a lot easier.
PS: Don’t rush into calling someone your bestie. This bond takes days, weeks, months and eventually years to build.
Misha has a passion for traveling and dancing. She is a movie buff and enjoys eating, shopping, reading (only SELECTIVE reading) and a bit of writing too. Professor by profession, she never forgets to carry one thing to work or wherever she goes…and that’s her smile..