A happy life is what we make, we are not given one served ready. We must know how to build it. You just need to take control of a few things and you’ll be good to go. Just be who you wish to be and not let other things or people overpower you.
As we travel and come across new places, new people, new lifestyles, we end up learning a lot about our own self. That is extremely necessary for one must understand what their own heart is like. That is the one and only key to a happy living. Travel helps us understand the sort of life we wish to live, the kind of people we wish to live with, the way we are happy. A little change never hurt anyone, right?
Introspection is often confused with being a loner. Let’s try and understand, it isn’t the same at all. Introspection involves a little lone time to understand what you really and because that is the person you live with every second of the day. Would it ever make any sense if you had no idea about that particular person? It really wouldn’t. Its better to find it out. Its better to know who you are and that is only possible with some introspection.
People these days are not ready to educate themselves for they blindly believe whatever they really are told. Reading is a dying tradition and we almost never understand it’s worth. Textbooks are something all of us read, and let’s face it, they are nowhere near education. However, we are not even ready to understand what education really is. Understand that its you we are talking about. It depends on you who you become. It depends upon you how others treat you for that entirely depends upon how you treat yourself. Educate yourself as much as you can until you die. Educations doesn’t end with growing up, it never does. Don’t stop the process of learning until you breathe your last breath.
Start communicating with people around you. Not only talking or expressing, but also listening and understanding. It is amazing to meet new people and get to know about their stories. Some might not really be as interesting but some will be totally worth it. The others too will teach you something or the other, that you won’t even realize. When you communicate, you become a better person and thus live a better and happier life.
Be Bold And Honest
Being different than others is no big deal. In fact, it is a thing to be proud of. Not being a part of the herd and having your own beliefs is one of the best things ever. Don’t be ashamed of it. Believe whatever you believe in even if no one else does. Be as bold to say whatever you like if you are right and don’t be quiet however don’t go about blabbering stuff even if you know you are wrong. Be honest about yourself, if not to others, at least to yourself, however, it would be the best if you are honest to the world around too for that makes everything simpler. Just be a firm believer, bold and strong enough.
People often tend to not love themselves enough, resulting in much worse times being spent in the daily lives. That doesn’t help anyone and really means to be something disheartening. When you love yourself enough, you keep away from people who don’t love you. You know your worth and you don’t let anything let you down. You make better decisions, better choices and thus lead a better life. Self love is utterly important.
Have Dreams And Goals
Having a goal to achieve and being passionate about something is a great thing to have. It gives you a motive to live and having dreams makes you work towards it. You tend to groom yourself up and go the extra mile to achieve what you dream of. If you don’t have a dream to pursue, find what you drives you and look for it, if you already have one, work as much as you can to achieve it. You really can. It will already e a better life than what you’re living now.
Never Give Up
Never give up on anything, specifically on yourself. Never let anything take over you and remember that you did not hold yourself together until now only to give up later. Just remember that you can do whatever you can believe in. just hold onto it.
Have A Brain Of Your Own
The people we live with are more often than not the ones that’ll pull you down. Have a brain of your own and know what’s good and what’s bad for you. Don’t let thing take over you and know that you must be the one to take control. Be the one who has the control of your life. Don’t let others do it. Be smart enough.
Shubhrika is an emotional person and portrays that in her words. She is a coffee lover and hence an intrigued writer.
She loves to play with words and twist them as much as she can, that is her way of writing. But mostly, she loves creating suspense in her writing. She would never let the real story come out until the last part of her writings.
Writing is her life and her heartbeat.