For those who do not as yet know it, Ambivert is that person who is neither completely introvert nor extrovert. They are not a combination of the two either. This simply is a term for people who, at times, feel completely like introverts and want nothing but seclusion. At other times, they feel like complete extroverts and tend to be involved in everything possible. People often confuse a lot of things about them.
Ambiverts are not a blend of anything. They are a unique thing
People often tend to believe that ambiverts are a combination of the traits of an introvert and an extrovert. It might turn out as a good definition in a layman’s language however, it isn’t completely true. We too are yet another sort. We have certain traits which are as original as of an introvert or an extrovert. We have our separate identities. We are not a mix, we too are originals.
Ambiverts understand most situations to the fullest
Since we tend to understand both sides of the stories equally, we turn out as people who can understand most situations extremely well. That, however, doesn’t mean that we will understand everything. There can be things we literally get no clue about. There can be things about which we too are stubborn enough to stick to our own point but an ambivert never lets the other down for they respect every aspect of a mindset.
Ambiverts DO NOT disclose their feelings easily
As said already, ambiverts can be the best “go-to” people for anyone, whenever in trouble. They listen, analyse and try to understand your situations. They tend to dig deeper into what you feel. Yet, one thing about ambiverts is that they just do not speak up. They might spend the entire night crying and stay in that pool of tears but will just not come to you directly. If they do, if you are a go-to for an ambivert, when in trouble, consider yourself extremely lucky.
Ambiverts switch really fast
As to the question that arises that when an ambivert is bent toward the introvertism or the extrovertism, the answer is that if it gets hard to understand, it still isn’t a problem. They switch really fast, as per the demand of the situation. If the circumstance wants them to be an extrovert while they really feel like being secluded, they’ll still go the extra mile to be what they are required to be at that moment. They put others before themselves and so look out to what the need of the hour and switch accordingly. Also, that changing the mood of an ambivert is not too difficult. Only when in extreme situations, it becomes really hard to handle one. Otherwise, they are the best people to deal with.
Ambiverts are fun to live with
An ambivert will never give up. They will try and test every possible thing from being extremely fun loving to the most serious person alive. They will never let you take off if you’re upset but will do the same thing themselves. They will never let you be uncomfortable. Instead, they will make sure you have fun wherever you go. They will always be there with you, to make you happy by whatever they can possibly do.
Ambiverts love Partying in Nature
The idea of partying excites ambiverts but their definition of partying is not that of going to clubs, getting drunk and losing the entire night. instead, they believe in partying with the ones they love, by a bonfire with some great music and the night is theirs. Their idea of fun is weird but they completely love it.
Ambiverts are the TRUE LOVERS
An ambivert has his/her theories straight to the point. Either they won’t love you or they would love you truly. There is no in between for an ambivert. They know what it’s like to have the people you love, with you and being happy but they also know it perfectly well what it’s like to feel lonely and alienated. They understand both your sides extremely well and thus make it a point, never to hurt anyone. They will know what they themselves deserve and yet, would never hurt an innocent heart. In fact, you’ll always find them standing right by your side, holding your hand, throughout.
If you have an ambivert with you, never let one go. They will never let you down. Even if they do, they will definitely make it up to you. Do not ever let an ambivert leave if you have one.
Shubhrika is an emotional person and portrays that in her words. She is a coffee lover and hence an intrigued writer.
She loves to play with words and twist them as much as she can, that is her way of writing. But mostly, she loves creating suspense in her writing. She would never let the real story come out until the last part of her writings.
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