Being real to the world and showing who you really are is a big deal of a question these days. The question here is not who is real or who is fake. The question is that the people who are real are often misconceived the most and there is nothing that hurts more than that.
1. They Are Thought Of To Be Fake
More than what it already takes to be the real person you are on the upfront as well, the people around you make it worse for survival by truly believing you to be a fake one as well. Like all the others around, you too are thought to be a fake one and that hurts too much because even though you really are who you are, you are still abandoned of trust.
2. They Get Hurt The Most
As is the human nature that we believe everybody else to be just the way we are, we tend to believe that everybody around us is also real, which is surely not true. As a result of which, we end up getting hurt the most for one simple reason that the world around is surely a fake one, which we often misjudge to hurt ourselves the most.
3. They Are Termed As The Attention Seekers
People mistook them a lot for attention seekers, not realizing that someone who isn’t fake will never be able to hide their feelings well. If someone does hide their feelings really well, that is one proof that the person is surely an attention seeker. However, the real one, being who they are and not really asking for any attention are accused of something they don’t even understand.
4. They Get Abandoned For Being Misconceived
What really happens the most of the times is that they are considered to be someone they are not and not acknowledged for who they really are. That puts the ones around them in a state of crime for they end up abandoning the person who was nothing but loving and caring towards the others. However, not many people understand the ones who are generous at heart. At the end of which, they end up getting abandoned and being understood by none.
5. They Are The Ones Who Are Always There For Others
Since they understand what it feels like to be lonely, they make sure that no one else ever feels that way. They know what it feels like to be hurt so they make sure that no one else ends up that way. The problem, though, lies that they are always there for others, they are always there to support and provide a shoulder to the others while the time when they need someone to cry in front of, all they have is a wall and their dear pillow. That’s heartbreaking.
6. They Just Give, Give And Give
We learn it all our lives that we live in a two-way world and it is always give and take however for the people who don’t know how to fake it, they end up giving in way too much but they never get anything back. They are stuck in giving away all of their hearts but all they get back in return is silence and hatred.
7. They Are The Ones Who’d Cry Themselves To Sleep
All day long, you’d find them smiling their ways through but when it’s time to go back to bed, the silent place where a person is supposed to be extremely calm and satisfied with their lives, they cry out there, almost all night to be able to sleep. They are the ones who weep tears down there to be able to forget all the harshness they go through and be able to sleep.
8. Yet, They Don’t Forget To Love
Even after going through all that they do, they don’t start to believe that in this world, being fake is the only way out. In fact, they never stop believing in love and continue to love unconditionally.